Beautiful transsexual? There is a 26 year old girl at work who used to be a man. Over the last couple of years she has been in treatment to become a girl. For example she has just returned to work after a number of weeks after recovering from facial femminization surgery.
To look at her is really strange and it is really hard to explain. I can still can picture her as a boy but she is now a beautiful woman. If you met her you would not guess her past but I can still see the person that was male.
The strange thing is I am totally falling for her. The fact she is a transsexual is really a huge turn on. Seeing this guy who I don't find attractive slowly turn into a stunning girl is a complete turn on.
In additon I have a real desire to sleep with her. I know she is regarded as pre-op (stil has her man bits) and I know she is a very active lover in her current form and I so want to be with her.
What is happening to me? Are these feelings strange? The friend I told says I am gay for wanting her but I am attracted to her female attributes, I would not be interested if she was still male but on the other hand I am so interested in her because of her journey.
Help! |
*facepalm* Get this part through your head, she was never a man. She was just born with male parts. She always was a woman where it counted (mentally).
You sound like a tranny chaser to me. You have a fetish for people who are trans. You're looking at her like a sexual object.
That's not uncommon, but it's extremely unwanted.
Chasers can be gay, straight, bisexual. It's not an orientation. It's a sexual fetish.
Good luck with that. |
Where can I meet a beautiful transsexual for a long term relationship or possibly more.? I have always been wanting to be with a transsexual but I do not know were I can meet the one of my dreams |
I tend to like many places I go to. For meeting people I tend to like a good micro brewery!
Hun, we go everywhere and not to any specific place, but we do tend not to go to clubs or gay bars etc..
As said in the movie, "Transamerica", "We walk amongst you!"
Sharon |
Beautiful transsexual girl - help? There was a girl that started at my work about 6 months ago. She is so beautiful, she is a lawyer and has a perfect appearance (gorgeous legs!). I can't stop thinking of her, my feelings towards her are stronger than any girl before. We get on like a house on fire and flirt all the time. I have definitely fallen for her in a big way.
I finally asked her out. She suddenly became introverted towards me. I thought I had blown it but she sat me down and explain that she is a pre-operative transsexual and did not want me to hate her for it.
I have never considered that she was previously male but I love her and am willing to accept her as it is the person I love not the gender.
She has invited me round tomorrow for dinner and as she lives closer to work she asked me to stay over, she has also made comments implying we will not be getting much sleep.
I am so nervous as I have never slept with a pre-op transsexual before but I so want to be with her - any advice? |
Before I begin, I have to start off by saying, you're a pretty cool guy. I'm glad that you are able to see her for who she is (and also for her beauty--we trans people work very hard on that, especially trans girls).
Depending on how comfortable both of you are, there may or may not be any "sleeping" going on. But if it does, here are some pointers...
1) Treat her like you would any girl in bed. Embrace her, hold her, whisper in her ear something sexy. Make her femininity be desired by your masculinity. It's the greatest thing any man can do.
2) Obviously, being a pre-op will provide a lot of experimentation on your part. It works just like yours (considering you do have a penis). Whatever makes you feel good, will make her feel good. And since trans girls knows what makes a man feel good--often, we are titled of "knowing just how a man wants it".
*Ask before you do, some girls do not like having "that part" included in sexual intimacy.
3) From your story, it seems like genuine interest. Please don't use her like trash. The last thing needed is for some man to treat any woman he just had sex with like trash. Be a gentleman.
When my guy and I first had sex, it was his first time as well. He's only had sexual relationships with "bio girls" (women born with female genitals). Yet, after working around the "new parts", he absolutely loves it...and can't seem to get enough. But trust me, the first time, a lot of time is needed to "get the feel for things". Although I have yet to get my SRS, we both have learned to enjoy what we have now. He's absolutely helped me be more comfortable and accepting of my body. And I know, once I get my SRS, I'll be absolutely ready.
Just keep things sexy and remember, the rest of the night is yours. Just play safe and use a rubber, k? |
Should I ask out this beautiful transsexual woman? There was a guy called Larry who worked close to me and we knew each other pretty well. We often chatted when getting drinks or walking home. Not that it matters but he was gay.
Any way he told me he was a transsexual and that he was taking time off to transition. Any way I wished him all the best and missed our chats etc.
That was about 9-12 months ago and I guess a fair amount of hormone and surgery later I was getting a drink and I was standing there starring at a very beautiful girl that was strangely familiar. Larry was now Lorraine and I can not believe how beautiful she is. I do not know much about transsexuality and I did not know what to expect but she has legs to die for, hips and a waist any girl would be proud of, beautiful cleavage, sexy long brown hair and a face that is very feminine. She has an fantastic dress sense and for a couple of weeks has worn beautiful skirts, opaque tights and blouses to her work.
I spoke to a colleague who also knows her and apparently she is pre-operative which I don't really understand as she has had surgery on her boobs and face.
Should I ask her out? Is it strange I can have no physical attraction to Larry but cannot stop thinking about Lorraine? Will she like boys? To be honest it does not really bother me what she was because I like her now. |
As long as you are interested in her for being a woman and not a pre op transwoman . Then Yes ask her out she may just say yes.
Woman Born Transsexual Now Cisgendered |
Would you date a beautiful transsexual woman? Hi. I'm asking the guys mostly but why not, also the girls. Would you consider dating or getting in a relationship with a perfectly passable, slim, gorgeous face and body transsexual woman who transitioned very young and has nothing masculine about her? |
The guys say "No", but I bet that if you met them (assuming you're talking about yourself), let them get to know you as the astounding female you undoubtedly are, then once you share with them that you weren't born that way, it'd be difficult for them to see you as male at all after getting to know you as yourself.
Errr. That was kind of ranty. I hope it made sense. ♥ |
Why do people think I am gay because I am attracted to this beautiful transsexual girl? I know some people might think I'm crazy but I actually find this transsexual model really beautiful. She is this very cute asian model and I honestly thinks she looks good. My friends called me gay when I said that I'm attracted to her and that if I knew her I would date her and maybe even marry her too. I'm not gay and I am straight but I just find this girl really attractive. I really don't care if she used to be a guy, all it matters is what she is now. She actually had a full transition and now has female parts so how can it still be gay if I were to marry her. How come people think I'm gay when she is really beautiful ?? Can you please explain to me why people think this ?? Below is her youtube link and she is actually a model.
www.youtube.com/user/rynaee |
Go for it, I am sure you are not gay. Many straight people have relations with transsexuals. Is not like she has a penis or something resembling a men. So is natural to feel attracted to her body. Many famous models are transsexuals.
Do whatever fulfills you without hurting anyone else. |
Who is the most beautiful transsexual in the world? I would say Roberta Close personally. |
| Either Janet Reno or Michael Jackson |
Beautiful transsexual at work - I have fallen for her - what should I do? There was a guy at work, Larry, who everybody thought was gay.. people were a bit nasty to him but I was a friend to him he was a decent guy and we became good friends.. he once made a pass at me and I explained I was not interested in him in that way....
... any way about 18 months ago we were told at work that Larry was to become Lorraine and from now on he would be she and dress/act etc as a woman. At first Lorraine was not a very convincing woman but I offered her support and stood up for her...
18 months down the line and I guess a lot of hormones later.. Lorraine is now a stunning girl.. she is so feminine and has legs to die for.. but still has the cracking personality she had before.
I have fallen in love with her and don't know what to do. I am accepting of transsexuals and understand the horrible situation she has been in growing up in the wrong body. We flirt all the time and I want to date her but I have never dated a transsexual... I know people will be negative to her but I love her and accept her as she is. She is non-op ie she wants to live as a woman but will not be having any surgery |
| Just ask her out the same as you would any other woman. Just treat her like a woman and you will do fine. |