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Do you have any lesbian sex tips? I have a girlfriend and we've had sex a few times before. I don't know if it matters but neither if us are butch. What can I do to blow her mind in bed? | i've always wanted to get one of these books
www.amazon.com/Best-Lesbian-Eroti…
maybe this would help??
if you scroll down there's a bunch of books, maybe find one and read it together.. | Can somebody help me I need some lesbian sex tips? This girl I really like wants things to get more serious but I need some tips before this can happen | | Lesbians don't have tips | I need some Lesbian sex tips? Hi, so the girl i've liked for two years is far more experienced than i am. We've made out a couple of times and i'd like to go farther but my insecurities are keeping me from doing so. i'm not very comfortable with my body, i feel too skinny and lacking womanly curves. also i'm worried she'll detect how inexperienced i am and be turned off. so i'd like some sex tips involving ya know eating her out, fingering her, etc. what are some things that totally drive a girl crazy? | | wow a "girl" asking how to turn a girl on? i dont believe eh......................................… | Lesbian sex tips........? my fiance and i have sex often i dont want us to get tired of the same things. we are always open for using new ideas postions toys. teasing tips? tips in general? just new ideas | Im not a lesbian but Ive experimented with girls in the past and hey my best suggestion is to get lots of ideas from lesbian porn. its weird but porn is a great way to find new and exciting ideas in the bedroom. you can even look at some by yourself and then see what you can surprise her with in the bedroom.
some things my boyfriend of 5 years and i do which you could also do since its not really straight or gay related is to have little games.
a few we do are:
body map. make little figures of yourselfs sort of like outlines and then put little dots or x's whereever you like to be touched and kissed or licked. its like giving eachother a road map to pleasure that doesnt just involve your sexual organs.
we also have done one where we put a bunch of different fantasies or ideas on paper in a jar by our bed and everyday we pull one out and act it out. like say cops and robbers or doctors office or it might be something more descriptive like shower sex ect.
we've done a whole month where we switched days and each day we got to pick what we wanted to do sexually. you dont have to do it for everyday either. it can be weekly or a few times a week. however you work it out.
we also have one where we've written something we want the other to do to us on a peice of paper then hid it really well where they[d have to find it and when they did find it theyd do whats on the card. like once i hid it in his wallet in a really tiny pocket that he hardly ever goes into. it took him almost a month to finally find it.
i could keep going, but i hope this helps. | First Lesbian Sex Tips? My story:
So, about a 3 months ago I have found a girlfriend. I am a seventeen year old girl, so that may seem a bit strange.. I am still not even sure whether I am just a confused heterosexual, bi or a lesbian. I just never felt this way before about anyone and I just dont want to think about gender. I think that I fell in love for the first time.
But now straight to the point:
The only things that weve done was hugging, kissing, cuddling and stuff.. But recently weve gone a little further, like, weve touched each others butts, chests, kissed on the neck and bellow... I got pretty turned on and I believe it was the same for my gf, as she was pretty upset when a call from her parents interupted us as I was putting off my hoodie. I know that something more is going to happen and I want it to happen and so I want to be ready and prepared. Yet I dont know anything about girlxgirl sex. I tried to find something on the internet but I had no luck. I have no clue what to do, what to expect... so I would REALLY apreciate some advice from anyone. Also, note that both me and my gf are seventeen and virgins. :D I also have one more... specific question. Should I shave my pubic hair of before my first sex? lol, youre propably laughing at my foolishness right about now, but honestly! I have no clue and need help! :/
Sorry for my english, by the way! Its not my mother tongue. | I'd personally prefer my girl to shave or at least keep it short. Ask her what she prefers, what she likes, what turns her on etc.
Just talk to her about it. Keep the toys away and make tonight about you, flesh on flesh love. Don't be afraid, it may be intimidating. You two will be bonding, so don't worry, look at it as a chance to know each other better. | Safe lesbian sex tips? I think I'm ready to have sex with the right girl but I'm not entirely clear on all the precautions I should take when having sex with another girl. I'm currently a virgin so I know I'm clean. Any help? | It's good that you're asking instead of just going ahead! :)
I found a decent resource for lesbian life in general (to the point where I referenced it in a report) that I think might be of help. I found the specific page for safe sex practices; I hope it helps.
In general, some good tips I've picked up from reading (and being forced to extrapolate this information because it's not readily provided) medical textbooks are:
- use a condom on sex toys that come into contact with bodily fluids
- make sure that no open wounds or diseases are present on/in either partner before any activity
- make sure that hands and any areas that might be involved (vaginal area, anal area, etc.) are properly cleaned before and after
- make sure that any products used, like a lubricant, do not irritate either partner's skin or mucous membranes. If irritation occurs, stop using whatever the product is. If a rash or something develops, go see your doctor, probably your best bet is your gynecologist.
I hope that you and she are able to fully enjoy each other, and that all goes well if/when this happens. Kudos for having the courage and sense to ask! :)
Best wishes to you! :) | We need Lesbian sex tips? I'm at my girlfriends for the night and we are lesbians, we are beginning to get bored doing the same things. We don't have any toys or anything. We are open for new positions, styles or anything else we can do without the aid of toys. Thanks! | | Wow. well what have you tried so far? if things are getting a bit boring in the bedroom there are many things that you can do. First thing to do is get some toys! Try some role playing. (student/teacher, tie one person up and let the other do whatever they want to you) One of the greatest things I have ever done to spice up the sex life is to not have it just for one week. By the end of that one week you will be wanting each other so much the sex will be GREAT! do some positions you have never tried... there are many website out there that offer good positions.... do 69, sit on her face, do her from behind. try the scissor position, watch each other masturbate, look at some porn, don't just thrust away at each other, try and make things sensual! Kiss her more, never underestimate the breasts. make her climax at least once before intercourse.... if you are still bored after all of this I really recommend abstaining from sex for just a week and see how long you can hold off for... if you can't last a day doing that tell each other your wildest fantasies and do that! | Lesbians: Tips on writing proper lesbian sex scenes? For those women who've had more experience in this area than I (which isn't much), I'd really like to know.
Do you have any tips on how to *write* a lesbian sex scene, or things to avoid? Anything you can think of is helpful. I just want to make sure I get it right, and that my limited personal experience doesn't make the scenes lack for realistic detail.
Thank you! | a lesbian sex scene could inclue, pussy licking, fingering, breast rubbing, making out, scissoring, 69, use of strap ons, use of sex toys eg dildos, *** licking
if you dont know what any of them are then you should google them, or you could just watch a lesbian porn and get your tips of there. | How to have the best romantic lesbian sex? (past expieriences, tips?)? Without toys :)
how to be romantic, pleasurable | Find someone you have a crush on, develop a relationship on a friendly level, then gradually make it romantic in nature. Find a place out of your routine to set the scene. Make sure no one will interrupt you.
You do not need candles, but you might want candlelight and something soft, fuzzy, plush and warm. Beforehand tell her you want her pleasure more than yours, or just as much as yours. If you do not want to ask her for verbal feedback, model the idea by making mmmn, or ohhh sounds when you really like what she is doing.
Take it excruciatingly slow. The first time my girlfriend touched my breasts she did so for a half hour, circling, circling, eventually squeezing the nipple. Then I came. Don't expect her to come. if she is not getting into it at all, guide her hand under your hand so she can guide you into how she feels pleasure when she pleasures herself.
Performing oral takes practice, use various methods with your tongue, not focusing on the clit at first. Take your cues with the sounds she is making. Nothing is harder than trying to guess what makes her feel good. Tell her that beforehand, a few days before you have sex. | Lesbian sex/make-out tips? Hi there,
I always thought myself asexual, so I never looked into sex at all. I now have this new girlfriend, though, who has managed to turn me on. The other day we were making out, however, and we both realized I have absolutely no idea of what I'm doing. She literally guided me through kissing her.
So, really, are there any tips, resources, or ANYTHING that you could share? I'm not looking for sex tips only, I'd actually like make-out tips more. Where do I touch her and how in order to turn her on? I do know she's a bottom, and I don't know about myself yet. But I really don't know anything past that. Help! | | Put your hands around her neck and run them through her hair and if you get really into it, rub them down her sides or like cup her breasts. Suck on her tongue, bite her bottom lip, the works. It's all natural. Don't worry so much. Just do what you would want done to yourself. If you want to, even ask her what turns her on. That's totally hot |
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